Which implement turns you on the most in your fantasies and in the books you read? There are so many different types of impact play, is there something in particular that drives your fantasies?
The simplest implement, the hand, can cause an astonishing amount of pain, especially when used on an already sore bum. It's more personal, with skin to skin contact at the strike point. And you know he's hurting himself some, too. Feeling the heat in his own hand as the blood rushes there, the pain of the strikes reverberating through his hand and arm. It can add an extra emotional component to the whole experience.
For a spanking type activity, my preference is a thick leather paddle. They have the perfect mixture of sting and thud. Then there are the wooden paddles - thin is fine with me but I've never been a fan of the thick ones. I'm not a fan of baseball bats, either, and that's what the thick ones remind me of.
I believe one of the most dreaded spanking implements out there is probably a simple wooden kitchen spoon. Those who have been properly introduced to a tawse seem to have a lot of respect for those, as well.
We get back to personal with a man's belt. Especially if it is one he wears on a daily basis. The act of taking it out of the pants, of folding it into whatever form it will be used. It's a part of him, it has his energy, his aura.
Stepping away from the spanking activities, we'll move to canes. Most people either love or hate canes -- you rarely see anyone ambivalent about them. There are the skinny whippy canes that sting like a line of fire. Then there are the thicker canes that compress layers and layers of skin and muscle and blood vessels and nerves and it hurts once and then a few seconds later you get the rebound pain and it hurts again and doesn't stop for a long, long time. For some that description will turn them on, for others it will terrify them. And then there are the ones like me, who feel both reactions.
The loopy thing-a-ma-jigs fall into the cane category for me. Yes, they may be swung like a paddle but they give the same type of pain as a cane.
Then we have that whole whips and floggers category. Floggers, cats, single tails, double tails, viper's tongues, the list is long. This category is my favorite. The caress of the flogger, then the sting of the same flogger. The thud of a heavy flogger that strikes hard enough to knock the breath from your lungs. It's sensual, it's painful. The best of both worlds.
What is your favorite impact tool to fantasize about? I'm not talking real life here, there are things I detest in real life but love to read about and I assume others do also. Don't restrict yourself to the implements I've talked about, if there is something you like or dislike that I haven't mentioned please tell us.
- When you are reading, which form of impact play works for you the most?
- Are there any that are an immediate turn off?