Friday, September 30, 2011

Is BDSM Scary?

I find it fascinating how people respond to writers of BDSM. For me, I don't find D/s relationships frightening, I think they are intriguing excursions into trust and understanding. You can't have the understanding without the trust and vice versa.

How vanillas find this scary, I don't know. I guess it's the wonderful toys -- kinda like the obsession with 007's cool gadgets. It's no different than establishing a relationship with a boyfriend or husband/wife, but trying to get past the fear of the "label' seems to be the  most difficult part.

I don't have much time today(I'm at a conference and short on time and brain power), and I do apologize for such a short post, but I'd love to hear how you feel about societies perception of the BDSM world and the people and practices within it.

If you're vanilla, I'd love to hear what both fascinates and scares you about the lifestyle.

Have a great day!

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