I’ve been immersed in the objectification experience for months as I’ve
worked on my latest, Safeword:
Quinacridone.
Several of my beta readers warned me ahead of time they weren’t into
objectification, but I was fine with this because my intention had been
to write so even those without an
objectification fetish would enjoy the experiences, and I looked forward to seeing how they reacted to the various scenes and to the story as a whole.
Imagine my surprise when these women changed their minds partway
through the book. It
isn’t a matter of them taking on a new kink, but of understanding part of what
motivates them to submit.
When you mention the subject, most seem to think of someone on hands and knees while being used as a
footstool; but there are so many other ways to
turn someone into an object. Imaging lying on your back with your hands and feet bound together and restrained to the headboard, and a curtain draping from a canopy above so
it puddles on the backs of your thighs. You can’t see the person using you,
and all they see is your genitals.
Masks and hoods can also take away a person’s identity, as can a bald
cap and dramatic makeup. Or how about skipping the bald cap and having one’s
head shaved? This isn’t about
humiliation, so wigs would be allowed when in public, but in
private... How much of our individuality is tied up in our hair?
Because objectification can take some extreme turns, I have my couple
explore how far others have traveled through the rabbit hole as they decide
how deep they wish to dive. This allowed me to show the scariest extremes and fully explore the subject beyond what I've personally experienced, or would ever want to personally experience.
However, you don’t have to be so extreme — taking one’s ability to
speak, forbidding eye contact, allowing one to only kneel and crawl,
forbidding clothes — these all serve to objectify and are seen in many BDSM
scenarios. Pony, puppy, and kitten play also serve a similar purpose; while they don't so much objectify, they do take away one’s humanity.
Do you believe part of your kink involves objectification?
very interesting, Candace. I'll have to look into reading this book. I've been curious about objectification, but never realized it was called that.
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